Be careful of what you say to others

It doesn’t matter who you are, but it’s always better to be polite and say please and thank you. In the world it’s important to be nice and kind.

Respect everyone around you! This includes family, people at school, new friends, old friends, whoever! 

You never know what they have been through or what they have done in life – so don’t judge them! It doesn’t really matter if they did something bad or did nothing wrong – kindness can fix anything.

It’s hard to feel happy when others around you are unhappy – try to change that, to do overwatch, be careful who you call ugly in middle school.

Even if you’re in a bad mood, the amount of happiness a small gesture in a good mood can bring in a person’s life is so much more than anything else in this world!

And to anyone who watched this video and swear they don’t have any troubles with their kids or family – I would say, go out and find them if they’re not happy. 

Talk to someone else about them, look for different options. Don’t just sit around and pray that your family gets better but do something about it yourself.

Here are some point to be careful of what you say to others-

1. Don’t call people ugly.

We are only here once, make the most of it. Don’t make someone else feel bad or depressed by saying something bad to them or calling them ugly! 

That’s one thing you don’t want to do, but you’ll probably catch yourself doing it at some point – so be careful! 

I know for a fact that my family says terrible things about others and calls them ugly – they’ve even called me “ugly” too. It’s just not good!

2. Don’t talk about someone behind their back if they’re not present.

Even if that person is an enemy, your mouth is the same mouth that cares for your family so don’t talk bad about them to someone else. 

Sure you’ll think because they’re not there right now – it’s okay to say it! But if you never talk bad about them – at least not in front of them – why would you want to say it? Remember, actions have consequences!

3. Don’t bully someone else.

You shouldn’t bully another person because abuse will eventually come back on you one day, but kids are always cruel because they don’t know any better – so be careful of how many threats or negative comments you let out about other people online or in private. 

It’s so easy to get upset with someone and/or bully someone else – so be careful of what you say! You have no idea who you’re talking about, so don’t go on the Internet and call people names if they’re not there to defend themselves.

4. Don’t judge a book by its cover.

Not going to lie, but kids are cruel. They try out new things on people who can’t do anything about it – that’s just how kids are. 

They do that to see if they can get away with it, just because they’re kids, but don’t get the idea that someone being different means they’re dumb. Let your kids be different and hurt them when they hurt you – for your sake and theirs!

5. Talk with respect when you disagree.

Don’t go on Facebook or Twitter and say terrible things about people – who knows who you’re talking to? It could be a kid in middle school who is very sensitive and important to you! 

If you don’t know them – don’t call them names! Be respectful of what these young children care about by not saying anything bad or derogatory towards it.

6. Don’t be the person who always has to prove themselves.

Don’t get offended or feel bad if someone says something to your face about you – because you are about yourself! 

You should only think it’s okay to judge people if they are professional athletes, actors, politicians, CEOs – not normal people who can’t help but be themselves by being different. 

Everyone has a different opinion about things and that’s okay! Just because you don’t like something doesn’t mean that everyone else does. Again it’s about what you say, not who you are!

7. Stick up for kids who’ve been bullied.

A lot of people are at least bullied by family or friends, but that’s probably the worst kind of bullying because you’re even afraid to talk to them about it, you’re at their mercy! 

Don’t be afraid to stick up for somebody if they were being picked on. 

Everybody deserves a chance to be themselves! Just because they have bad things happen to them doesn’t mean their character is awful – so give them a chance!